Anonymous asked: So, I've had sex with my boyfriend and its always missionary position. He wants me to get on top and "ride" but I am very scared that I won't do anything right or not to his expectations. Like I'll go to school or if I just hop like a frog, up & down etc. I am very afraid, and don't really want to try :s
Don’t be worried about the situation. If you don’t feel comfortable then don’t be forced into doing anything you don’t want. Talk to your boyfriend - express your concerns. That way when the time comes he can help you get it right.
Sex is something you can get wrong, but don’t be worried about getting it wrong. We can only learn from our mistakes. The best thing to do would be to experiment a bit - ask your boyfriend what he likes and just sorta ‘go with the flow’. There is no right way or wrong way to sex. Just give it a try!
Anonymous asked: how does a girl get an orgasm during sex? i had sex with my boyfriend but i gave up because he always ends up cuming and it doesnt even feel that good to me
1. Take things extra slow.
2. Most girls achieve orgasm through foreplay and clitoral stimulation - so pay particular attention to the clitoris.
3. Talk to your boyfriend and tell him you aren’t enjoying sex as much as you think you should be. Try out some new techniques to get you both sexually excited. Different things work for different individuals.
heartliketexas asked: Are all girls supposed to cum when they have an orgasm? Me and my boyfriend have sex all the time and I've never had an orgasm (or I dont think I have) and he keeps telling me that Ill cum if I have one. He is trying so hard to satisfy me and I just wanna know am I supposed to ejaculate anything so he wont try so hard to make it happen?
This is different for every individual; the majority of girls do not ‘squirt’ when an orgasm is achieved. However, there is a small minority that do.
It is possible in the situation you are describing that you are trying a little too hard. Just try taking things really slow… orgasm is more likely to be achieved during foreplay than actual intercourse. Make sure your boyfriend keeps in contact with your clitoris, this is the most vital part in terms of stimulating a sexual response. Only the minority of girls can reach orgasm through penetration; most need clitoral stimulation.
In terms of a simple answer here; no, not all girls will cum during orgasm.
Anonymous asked: Can you tell an intimate relationship with a guy from one that the guy solely wants sex? Will he ask/want you to do different things if he just wants sex? Like if hes signaling that he wants a handjob, is sex all he wants? or is it just becoming more intimate and physically closer to them? My bf and I (17) have been dating for about 6 months officially, but really its been a year. he'll caress my chest and hes started touching me "there". He'll guide my hand to his area and Idk what to think/do.
Okay, it sounds like your boyfriend is ready for sex (or he things he is) and is simply trying to instigate the situation. Just take things slowly.
If you don’t feel comfortable with anything; tell him. You’ve been together for a year, you should feel comfortable talking to him about such things.
In terms of judging if he simply wants sex off you, which I highly doubt is the case since you’ve been together a year - there a girls who will screw a guy within days, I’m sure it’s not just sex he’s after.
I’d highly recommend talking the situation over with him and get to know where everyone stands. Ask him to give you a bit more time, I’m pretty sure he’ll understand.
Anonymous asked: Im not a virgin but i recently had sex with a friend and we had to stop because i started bleeding. Is this normal?
In this case, it could be that you didn’t break the hymen during sex the first time. This can happen.
It is normal for you to bleed a small amount during first time sex experiences, while it is also normal for you not to bleed at all.
However, if you are talking pools of blood; that’s something you need to get checked out. If this keeps happening I’d recommend getting it checked.
Anonymous asked: I am a 21 year old virgin. I recently started masturbating regularly (using my hand). I make sure to sanitize my hands before I do anything but recently I have noticed three pimples down there (inside and outside). Is the masturbation causing this? What can I do?
It could be just due to the natural oils that come off your skin during contact with the hands. At this stage, it wouldn’t be anything to worry about. If they start getting larger/spreading or more irritating I’d recommend going to see your local doctor.
Anonymous asked: This is for people who are into trying new things to pleasure the opposite sex. I found out that i enjoy ass play, fingered, licked, it sounds disgusting but it feels amazing and since my boyfriend is so openminded he didn't mind. Then i tried it on him, and i realized he enjoys having his taint rubs and he ass grabbed, and it made the sex literally 10 times better, even though it was crazy good in the first place. Try new things, guys love adventure and you could too! :)
Anonymous asked: Me and my boyfriend had sex, it was my first time. Its didn't fit correctly at first but then we proceeded as soon as it was in. I didn't bleed but it hurt A LOT to the point where i told him to stop, about 20 minutes later we tried again and the pain was even worse. Will this get better? And is it normal not to bleed?
This sounds like a simple case of you being a bit tight. It’s really not an issue and is nothing to get worried about.
Try practising with several fingers before you try full intercourse again. Its should make it easier for the penis to enter during sex. Also make sure you lube up before you try again, extra lube usually does the trick.
Its perfectly normal not to bleed after sex, while it is also perfectly normal to bleed after sex. It’s most likely because your hymen (the thickish piece of skin within the vagina) has torn before sex; most often a result of sport/fingering, etc.
If you do keep getting pain during sex, I’d recommend taking it to the next level. But considering it was your first time, I’d just try and take things a bit slower and make sure your body is prepared before you try again!
Anonymous asked: My boyfriend and I have had sex before, and it feels great, but I've only had a few orgasms. I want him to touch my clit more during sex so I could achieve orgasm, but I don't know how to tell him without making him think he's not good in bed or something
Perhaps show him, if you start moving his hand towards that area hopefully he’ll pick up the hint. Or do it yourself, this way he can really see the areas that pleasure you most.
Anonymous asked: im 16 and my gf wanna have sex, the problem is that i think i will not last too long :/ how i can last more?
Just practise, with her.
Girls expect the boys not to last long the first few times anyway, its only natural. Make sure you’re both comfortable before rushing into anything and make sure you consider suitable protection!
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